Interactions

Berkeley, Saturday, August 1, 2026 1:49 am

I wrote the title first.

Ok. I made a clarification I had to made. Why however the brain gets stuck in quickly recalling an event or a name. Although I received a deviation from the main topic of conversation, yet still respect the other person boundaries, and express one boundaries, fighting and confrontation are part of any kind of human true relationship. I will get to that topic.

My brain couldn’t recall the word feather when I was pointing to something, I said what is like plume, is it fletch?

Another person who said my name clearly. I couldn’t recognize the face and name. First or few times that has happened to me.

A friend refers to a visit to the the Faculty Club in an afternoon of probably 2024. I have a hard time recalling that.

Rarely those things happen, or use to happen to me. Now, I need to find the reason. As long as I can see when I cannot recall something.

Another important aspect in interactions are the tidal or wave effect that those interactions can take. Few, particularly if they do not well you, can give or not enter a challenge. Many things are a sort of dance, might be even boxing. By the tidal, another rhythm can be the By the Beautiful Blue Danube by Strauss II, based on the poem with the same title by Karl Isidor Beck. (johann-strauss.at). The point I was trying to get at, particularly when there is already some confidence with the other person, but in any case, everyone at some point has to discharge their probably negative vibes. If one is conscious can master things, yet still need to be true to the heart to achieve truth relationships. This is not only for a romantic relationship. The thing is to be able to receive non-sense claims or stay calm while still listening to rant and make a point. A few amazing things, it can be tidal effect as said. It can be the other person. Or it is possible and several times happen, the other person could become a mirror. Hopefully claims are well fundamented though.

It is so interesting how by staying calm and realizing that the brain of the other person is fuming, still one does not necessarily to shutdown and stonewall and not response, but can make a case, and probably make the other person aware of what is happening, or how one is reacting. By holding the ground those things can end up well. But by surprise, because that does not necessarily reach the heart.

In some case several peels or layers are need to keep learning. But the capacity to hold adverse situation is good. One option of course is to flee or avoid or ignore. That is another topic. But reaching solutions, even if not full, is much more satisfactory by all means… I guess some writing here is incomplete.

I noticed in the text writing of somehow the consistent used of words might guess. One point of confrontation of course will be continous challenge to straight up and straight shooting of claims, invitations, arguments.

One thing that really annoys me is the construction of a, plausible, conspiracy theory without evidence. It deconstructs some thinking, defies logic. Wonder what one can learn.

Some learning would be on the notebook. By being serious, even when one knows can joke.

I had a 2 minute detour a day ago might be, there was a video of the princes of racing, I do not recall the name. It was an interview in the car to an Argentinian Formula 1 driver. Franco Colapinto. Ok Memory is working again. I also would need to recall some streets from the late afternoon. Those are supposed to be funny interviews. I assume she has a unique audience, and she flirts with the desk. It is an average show. But I do respect people doing stuff. One can be more critic. She, and her production are creative though. She did a better show with Leclerc. I think a lot of the vibe has to be with the guest as well. Franco did not do well. Man, people need character. And the sarcasm translated in different language does not translate well. But it is one of the things that when one thinks actually admires the creativity and quick feet of Franco as well to stay in his character. Although, he might be shy and not necessarily a go and taker by nature. If those words make sense. But there was some capacity to all those twist he made, but not of all appreciated until one notice. i.e. he said there has been more Argentinian formula one drivers than British, twisting the fact can be a joke, but factual ones might need context. At least he can make people remember with that of the name of Juan Manuel Fangio, if my memory is working.

Something I learned today from a conversation, although forgot the title. It is four elements: belonging, mastery, interdependence, and generosity. I had to look up the belonging, that one I do not recall from the conversation. It might be covered. I always argue that one should be there. That is the first essential thing. But at times one gets on the self, and does not do even that. So forget one’s principle.

Streets: Beyond the basic ones that are in the brain. I drove through Henry, Del Norte, Arlington, Solano. Then I do not know, for sure. Turned left on Eswood? Arrived to St. David of Wales. Had to make two calls before leaving, so I arrived towards the end of the homily. The Friday mass is in Spanish by P. G.

On the way back, it was probably Eswood, did not take Yuba but the next one. I would need to look up a list of other streets. I can mind map the location, shape characteristics. I might have taking Key. Drove through Richmond. Crossed Fairwoods? This is one I would need to look up. Got to Solano Ave. Others are on the brain.

Corrections and additions:

Esmond, not Eswood.

Misses:

Sonoma

Kern

Amador

Clinton

McLaughlin

Key

Elm

Fairmount, Fairwoods

Detour in Coronado, Taho Pl, Victoria St

Ashbury

Key

I did not cook for tomorrow. But I had a good walk.